A little secret

2009 May 31
by Pallavi

A secret that even I wasn’t aware of, until this evening.

I took sonny out for a small walk, with my lovely co-sis and her son. A simple visit to the shoe-shop. And I couldn’t handle it! I just couldn’t.

The roads were TERRIBLY busy. Swarms of crowds everywhere. Incessant traffic. And the awfully sultry weather. Sonny  and I are so used to pushing around his pram that walking – under these circumstances – was an ordeal.

And just as we finished our expedition, a stray dog came up to us. Yeah, he really did, and kept circling us for a few minutes. I was dumb-struck. Because I didn’t KNOW what to say! Must I say ‘Shush…go away’ or must I say ‘Shoo..po po (meaning Go!), or must I throw a stone? Must I carry my little boy? Or must I just pray!! I seriously didn’t know.

Because its been 4 years since I saw a stray animal! Or since I walked on a one-foot-high footpath, that wasn’t even continuous along the side of the road.

Coming home to Chennai is like coming home to Chaos. The same ubiquitous organized chaos, in which I have spent all my life.

And I realised, that unfortunately, in the last 4 years, I’ve become a stranger in my own hometown!

 

P.S: Which is why I am on a tiny blog break. Life is just tooooooooooo busy out here!

15 Responses leave one →
  1. 2009 June 1

    Have fun! =) I’ve never really encountered much strays where I live.

  2. 2009 June 1

    There are things that make you frown
    and others that make you feel let down
    but this place also wears a crown
    of being Pallavi’s home-town.

    You have just seen a stray animal. Wait till you see stray people.Welcome to Chennai

  3. 2009 June 1
    monikamanchanda permalink

    PRG: well said… ” You have just seen a stray animal. Wait till you see stray people.Welcome to Chennai ”

    Pal, girl welcome back to India but it isnt too bad… isnt it :) and dont react too much to the strays usually they are nice animals dont say anything till u provoke them

    Hey now that u are in chennai any plans to come to the near by town Blore :)

  4. 2009 June 1

    Cool, Pal, cool.
    Only a stray dog.
    More yet to come, welcome home!!

  5. 2009 June 1

    You are vacationing in India, Pallu? Have fun.

  6. 2009 June 1

    You are here in India?:) that was quick :D
    I thought it will be some time before you pack your bags and meet your family and friends in Chennai :)
    enjoy yourself!
    ((hugs))

  7. 2009 June 1
    Pal permalink

    Spamwarrior- Thanks…how come (you haven’t seen strays!!)? Do u not live in Hamara Bharath Mahaan?

    PRG- Awww….that was sooo sweet! Thank you :=) Are u in Chennai too? This is the thing with Cyberspace, right? We never know whom we would bump into and in which part of the world!!

    Monika- You’re right..it isn’t too bad..guess its only a question of settling-in-time!! He he, visiting Blr is definitely on the cards because we have a swarm of relatives there. And now you too :-) Will surely mesg you if we plan something.

    Rameez- Don’t scare me :-( But thanks for dropping by :-)

    Sol- Yeah, certainly am, and sonny is having a ball!

    Indy- Am here…am here alright!! And where are u?

  8. 2009 June 1

    Have fun meeting the folks :)

    Are you planning to come up north?

  9. 2009 June 1

    Thank God u mentioned Chennai because ’strays’ only happen in Asia …I guess…as I have never seen them in the “western world” and talking of hometown every year when I go to ‘my’ hometown here in India itself I feel like a stranger at times :D …. It’ll be more fun for your boy when he grows up a little and comes back…..anyways enjoy ur stay and be safe ;) as the ’strays’ seem to have forgotten u :P

  10. 2009 June 1
    Pal permalink

    SMM- He he…Going around Chennai is an ordeal in itself..travelling up North would be … ahem… but thanks a ton for your invitation (I quite happily assumed it was one ;-) ), and I will surely take it up some day :-)

    Dhiman- Yeah me too.. and my lil one is sick already…diaorrhea (oh what a horrible spelling, that!!) but he is having a whale of time playing with the cousins.

  11. 2009 June 2

    Good to see you safe in Chennai! :D

    Enjoy your stay! :)

  12. 2009 June 2

    ya.. stranger in hometown– I had this realization during my last trip… it took 15min to cross the road since i was waiting for vehicles to stop for me to cross

  13. 2009 June 2
    Pal permalink

    Thanks Pix, and Yuva, you couldn’t be more right!!

  14. 2009 June 3

    The last time I was in Chennai it took me 15 min to cross the road next to Ega theatre…14 min and 50 seconds laughing at my road-crossing skills and 10 seconds to cross :) )) But you know what? After the initial shock, I fell in love with the place all over again…the chaos, the smells, the roadside stalls…hmmm…looking forward to my India trip…

  15. 2009 June 4
    Pal permalink

    Totally identify with that too, Ganga. The moment we got into the cab (from the airport), I felt like I was back on home ground. Just that this crowd and heat are unimaginably killing! When are u here? And how do we meet up?

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